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Relationship Survival Kit/Reniassance (click to Listen/Download Braodcast)
During these economic times each marriage needs to put together a “Survival Kit” in cases of emergencies. Perhaps during this “storm” of the economy fluctuating, it could be useful to have this type of "kit" available.
There are a few components for an emergency survival kit. It is suggested that you have items like a flashlight with extra batteries, water, blankets, medicine and many other necessary items to aid in your surviving the storm that could be approaching.
We need the same type on concept for our marriages during tough times.
Here are a few items to consider:
1. The first item should be Jesus and His Word. Remember, Jesus is the Light of the world and His Word is our guide. It is by the strength and might given to us by our love and obedience to Jesus that will sustain us. His Word is oftentimes all we have to hold onto during perilous times. He is called our comforter in times of trouble. My mother called him a mind regulator and a heavy load sharer. These are the things we usually look for when we are facing a challenge.
2. We need to bring in a healthy dose of fight with us during a battle. The goal is to team up against the issue and not against each other. The Bible speaks of a three stranded cord that cannot be quickly broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:12) If you will allow me to take liberty and acknowledge Jesus as the additional cord that will keep us together.
3. Communication is the third item we need to pack in our “survival kit”. The kind of communication needed is on a higher level of honesty that will form the foundation of belief. We should begin to talk about everything. This will allow three things to have the possibility of occurring:
a. Allow us to put the past hurts into perspective. We can sometimes bring up issues from the past at our weakest relationship moments and cause waves of damage.
b. Take the present and allow both of us to see where we are, realistically.
c. Look to and prepare for the future. We must be a family working toward a common vision and mission. This will also require us to be nimble enough to change our plans. Remember: Set your goals in stone and your plans in sand.
4. Lastly, we should empower each other by acknowledging our spouse’s strength and letting them know that we appreciate them for that strength. When we both focus on the strengths we are stronger. At this time we can present a complete and united front.
5. See and Seize the opportunity to thrive during this time.
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