When you enter into a relationship, at some point in time you are going to attempt to understand who the other person is. But is this the right question to begin the relationship with? I am proposing that it is not. Your first question should not be who they are but What they are. You should understand what that person is as a woman or a man.
We have to understand what a woman is as a woman the entity and the same goes for the man.
This is a question that should be answered long before you meet that significant other. We do not wait until the day of the game to practice, we should practice before we get to the game. We make such valiant efforts to learn and understand everything else but make very little effort to understand the opposite sex. We think it all comes natural and the only thing that comes natural is a Natural Mistake!!

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